ARE YOU HAPPY FOR OTHERS?

How do you respond when another person tells you good news? Do you jump for joy or stew under your breath to why it’s not you?

So, Are you happy for others?

When you are genuinely happy for others it really shows in the body language not the just the spoken words. Words are not relevant these days (only what you say to yourself) it’s the action that counts.

Often an unhealed person is triggered by someone’s efforts being recognised.

Even, if it is small.

It’s a big thing in the other person’s life.

Perhaps your recently married best friend has just fell pregnant when you have been trying for years?

Being happy for others is an important life lesson to learn rather the opposite and be feeling full of revenge and envy. Because when you are not happy for others or share the excitement, it naturally blocks your own success.

This was something I struggled with in my early days of my blogging when I was in a private group and seeing the others win book proposals to being published in a famous magazine or simply had a strong following. Then admin of the group posted,

‘When you aren’t happy for others, it blocks your own!’

OMG that was so spot on that I made changes to my life to focus on being happy for others.

So, I find it easy to be excited for others, where as the remaining ones I support them the best way I can.

You’ll know that in time, as you will only be able to follow those that really make your heart sing. Especially those times when you open up your social media and their photos jump out at you in such a happy way? They are the ones I’m talking about. Every one of those bloggers, photographers, inspirational teachers all need to have the same effect on you.

When they don’t, you need to reassess where you are at and find out if it’s time to discover new food, inspiring people or environmentally friendly leaders to your news feed.

Isn’t that right?